The 3 Deadly Sins of Dating – What Everyone Needs To Know

In the amazing, wonderful, and often frustrating game of love, there are many things that both members in a relationship can do that will make them think that there is no way forward and that things are never going to change.  Most of the time, this is not correct.  Now, having said that, more often than not, these problems will be the cause of a break-up and in the end some very bitter feelings.

Since I am a man and know from personal experience that I have been guilty of all three of these mistakes that are outlined in the guide.  When I first read the “3 Deadly Sins”, I caught myself laughing a little bit but also cringing a little also.  As I was reading, I could visualize almost every time in my life that I had experienced them and how I felt during each experience.

Now to get down to business!  Here are the “3 Deadly Sins” that many of us will make during the course of our lives:

1)      “I PAID MY DUES, NOW WHERE’S MY REWARD??” – Just because we dress nice, smell nice, workout and have read a whole library on dating, it doesn’t mean that we will have everything dropped at our feet without having to do any work to get it.  Now I’m not saying that these things are not great prerequisites for gaining a date, it doesn’t mean that everyone will throw themselves at your feet.  Having these qualities is only half the equation.  Once we learn how to get the others attention, we learn that being able to express our theoretical knowledge is just as attractive to the opposite sex.

2)      “THE LAST DATE WAS AWFUL, I SHOULD JUST QUIT SO IT DOESN’T HAPPEN AGAIN”  - If you have ever found yourself thinking this, you would be correct.  If you give up, you will never have to feel like a failure again in your life.  Now some people might think that this is an ok way of thinking but if you never have to experience the sadness and failure that comes along with rejection, you can never experience the fruits of your labor in an amazing relationship.  Rejection is a very important part in the learning process of love.  Getting the cold shoulder, bad attitudes, and just downright flaky personalities is something that we all have to deal with but if we can get past all that, the rewards are exponentially worth it.

3)      “THIS IS ALL OR NOTHING, I HAVE TO MAKE THIS WORK” – If you get caught up in this train of thought, chances are that you are going to end up failing in the end.  If you sit down and actually think about it, does the fate of mankind actually depend on whether or not you get their phone number?  Putting too much importance on how your encounter with someone can often give off an “aura” of desperation and make you less attractive.  As much as we like someone and want them to go out with us, we cannot put too much focus on it cause in the end, we’ll overthink the situation and ruin what possibly could be a great thing.

Now in order to start getting out there and making a wonderful connection, we must first figure out the antidote for the “3 Deadly Sins”.  The first and main thing that must be done is to think about the dating game as a “boot camp” of sorts.  Now, what this means is that of course there is going to be many aches and pains, bumps and bruises, the final outcome will always give you an incredible sense of achievement that no one can take away from you.  Second and lastly, just remember to just be yourself and let your natural self-worth be seen.  Taking these few words of advice and applying them to your future dating experiences, relationships and love will be closer to your grasp than you ever thought possible.

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